The ways to get a girlfriend and how to do it is a very broad subject and one that could take up many posts. We could simplify and simply say that we would like to aim to simply be able to talk with attractive women on a regular basis. And when I say talking with attractive women, I mean chatting to them anywhere, any time regardless of the situation. They key quality that will land you a girlfriend is your ability to make women feel comfortable. If you want to get a girlfriend this will be your main strategy. There are two other secrets that I will also share that will give you the framework on how to get a girlfriend.
How To Get A Girlfriend:
1. Make Women Feel Comfortable:
This is the key element to getting a girlfriend. Making a women feel comfortable, and being comfortable around women is a highly attractive trait. Many women find that if you can make them feel comfortable, they will be attracted to you. Being one of the major keys to getting a women invested in you, and thus giving you the chance to make her your girlfriend, you will have to work on this one as it doesnt come easily to most guys. You will have to be willing to invest much effort into building your ability to be comfortable around women, and making them feel comfortable around you. If you can master this, you will be well on your way to getting a quality girlfriend.
2. Being Able To Make Natural Conversation.
This is the topic of countless e-books, seminars and boot camps. How to make natural conversation? It is very difficult to make natural conversation when you are very nervous. When you become comfortable around women, then making natural conversation will come naturally to you. When you do get to the stage where you can talk without feeling so nervous that you cant even speak properly then you can follow some general guidelines:
- Talk how you would with a long-term girlfriend. – Dont go asking too many questions. Dont go too personal. Make more statements than questions. – Disagree with her. – Tease her. – And generally dont be too interested in what she has to say.
These are rough guidelines and will be the theme of another post.
3. Doing What You Want To Do.
The reason why this is important to getting a girlfriend is it shows that you are a man. If you cant do what you want to do, then you are not going to be able to get a girlfriend. Most women want a man who knows what he wants and goes after it. This is an important trait, and will help you get a girlfriend.
These three secrets will give you a massive advantage in your quest to getting a girlfriend, and should lead to a steady long-term relationship.